[分享] 為什麼不該追求愛情
為什麼不該追求愛情
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O2ucDApdbvs
戀愛與職場原來有這麼多相似之處?商業顧問張國洋認為,不少人在談戀愛時常被中文所謂的「追求」二字給誤導了,傾向聽從直覺採取一個容易把對方嚇退的策略。
但實際上要發展長遠的戀愛關係,我們應像知名品牌建立客戶興趣那樣,採取一種釣魚型的策略:一面拿出價值與口碑吸引魚群;另一方面,則要避免急躁收線以免把魚線弄斷。
It is very similar between pursuing lover and building career. Business
consultant JHANG, GUO YANG thinks a lot of people have misunderstood the
meaning of "pursue the love", and often scare off the one. In fact, if peoplewant to develope a long term relationship, should make the target interested
in them just like to make the customer interested in the brand. Take fishing
for example, fisher lure the fish with value and good reputation but doesn't
rush to reel the thread in, otherwise, the string might break and the fish
will go away.
很時尚的觀念,不追不求,其實就是很節制克己的情欲管理,在古代叫君子,在西方叫紳士。現在叫精品,除了昂貴,還有深奧獨特的內涵。
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宋晏仁醫師談「如何戒除糖癮?」https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hpw3z1Cpgvw
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fxm9OsUTPpU
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影片很優,推 尤其對男生來說
這種風格的文章幾乎都是在講同一套說法「只要你把自
己當蘋果,就會有迷妹買你」
可是不幸的是,大部分的人的品牌價值最多就是華為、
小米、華碩等便宜貨 最多就三星,就算三星用料開價
跟蘋果差不多,還是被壓在地上摩擦而已。
我追存摺 給你參
這種就是精神勝利法 讓心情好點而已
這方法很辛苦,但對於戀愛經驗不多的男生來說不失為一種
方式
拿出 “價值與口碑” 價值口碑是什麼;你腦中第一浮現
的是什麼? 我真想問
常常有愛情不是用追的文章 但具體怎麼做根本不知道
愛情的確不是追來的,但是具體做法就是什麼也沒法做
吸引是努力不來的
爆
[花邊] Lillard:我對於重建不感興趣Damian Lillard says he’s not interested in rebuilding That's not what I'm interested in. So that's what the frustrating part of it is. Talking about what's gonna happen next season. and us building. That's not what I'm here to do especially at this stage of my career. Damian Lillard 說他對於重建並不感興趣爆
[外絮] 老巴:我可以買勇士贏,但我不在乎誰進總老巴:我可以買勇士贏,但我不在乎誰進總冠 “Oh, I can buy into the (Warriors)," Barkley said on the "Ryen Russillo Podcast " prior to Game 2. "I hate their fans. But we have a lot of give and take, and t hat doesn’t bother me. They, you know, you know, Ry? As long as people are reac ting to your opinion, you're doing what you're supposed to do on television."爆
[情報] LBJ推特文: 有些事情是真的...來源: LBJ推特 網址: Something is REAL. (FISH emoji) going on. 有些事是真的,(魚魚)正在發展中.... (底下板友說明:Real fishy,指有可疑事件)73
Re: [求助] 找老婆的路上嚴重受阻 求建議...原文恕刪 整篇文章看下來,我認為你不是受阻,而是根本開錯車道。 你目前需要的不是認識女生的平台或方法,你需要的是釐清自己追求的目標是什麼。 看完你的文章,只讓人覺得你很想結婚,但完全不知道你為什麼想結婚,你是想生小孩? 還是想找一個心意相通的另一半共渡一生?還是因為年紀到了,覺得該結婚?還是結婚是60
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[問卦] 真的有男女是以柏拉圖式愛情交往的嗎?柏拉圖式戀愛、精神上愛情,以西方哲學家柏拉圖命名的一種追求心靈溝通,抑制性慾的 精神戀愛。 當心靈摒絕肉體而嚮往著真理的時候,這時的思想才是最好的。而當靈魂被肉體的罪惡所 感染時,人們追求真理的願望就不會得到滿足。 --2
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[分享] 談戀愛, 就像購買選擇權其實, 被追求方就是市場的賣方 (莊家) 追求方, 就是市場的買方 帥哥美女 或條件好的對像 就是價內選擇權 所以當然不只具有時間價值, 還有內含價值呀, 所以人家當然會賣得比較貴 而其他人, 就像價外選擇權一樣, 可能內含價值不高, 但你可以提升你的時間價值2
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