Re: [討論] 交友都要秀身家?
※ 引述 《smallworld (腸門有稀)》 之銘言:
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: 我和原po狀況類似 僥倖在這次川普大撒幣後
: 有了可以參加幾次慈善撲克王大賽的free cash flow
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: 本來也是對感情有許多憧憬 後來趁著三級封城 每日在家做飯整理家事 胡思亂想
: 仔細反省之後得到了一些結論
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: 給原po的建議
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: 年紀到了 有些事情就不要堅持了 比如婚姻
: 如果你的財產都是你自己辛苦奮鬥而來
: 何苦透過婚姻讓法律去強制分享給無功之人?
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: 到了這年紀應該想的是如何活得更好 更健康 感情的事情應該隨緣
: 而且不應該在女性前面show off財力
: 你如果交過幾次女友 應該也會發現女人相處模式
: 最多也就是那樣 太陽底下沒有新鮮事 有這些身家
: 再找個女人來綁住自己只是徒增麻煩而已
: 你覺得結婚之後女人會用甚麼手段管你的財產? 我是想都不敢想
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: 台灣男人最慘的就是被洗腦的嚴重 一切以女人所要的東西為奮鬥目標
: 並且以為結婚人生才完整
: 即便努力爆肝工作 但因為科系或是創業 投資的機運有別
: 到後來 比較不幸的還要被女人各種嫌棄
: 所以不要再有這種 "以女性擇偶標準為依歸" 的想法
: 資源要用在自己身上 疫情過後 用利息錢去壯遊 或是完成一些結婚以外的夢想
: 不然去念博士班 發發paper 立功立言立德好歹做到立言
: 遠勝過找個女人在你身邊煩你
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: 您的問題在於 已經有SSR級的實力(手游SSR卡片一般為千分之個位數
: 差不多就是動產破億在台灣的比例) 卻在用R級的策略
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: 持盈保泰 專注本身的幸福才是比較好的方向
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: 不過如果還是想不開想認識女的 也很不建議使用交友軟體 在那邊男人跟迴轉壽司一樣: 在女人前面轉啊轉 廉價的很
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: 不妨打扮的陽光一點 並多運動練出一些線條 然後去外文補習班 健身房 或是
: 找間大學附近的餐廳多去光顧 會聊的話 應該可以認識到不少年輕女生
: 然後交朋友就好 主動輸一半 接下來順其自然發展 錯過也沒差 那是對方的問題
: 不要秀身家 有點信心即可
你這段話讓我非常認同,也讓我想起之前讀老巴傳記:「找到適合的人結婚,這會讓你的生活變得更加美好,也會改變你的志向和所有的一切」。Marry the right person. I'm serious about that. It will make more difference in your life. It will change your aspirations, all kinds of things.
不過人生就是走這樣一回,在你財富自由之後一切生活都遊刃有餘。也許嘗試著不一樣的人生經歷會有不一樣的體會!
幹!價值投資這幾年都吃屎啦!
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我是覺得聯誼的場合下 可以說一下台北有房 很多女生很想住台北 算是加分 資產一億倒是可以不用說 不過聯誼時間太短了 你要不帥 要不風趣 要不有錢才可以吸引人 但是說有錢又會太刻意 但是我覺得聯誼時候 帥最有用 不帥可以不用去被洗臉了4
這種問題的答案簡單的不得了 真的不知道有什麼好問 施主捫心自問 除了身家以外還有多少可以秀? 如果自己知道沒有 那麼確實就不要亂秀6
打個比方來說, 我認為金錢是硬體, 其他的特質, 是軟體, 而你的裝備是其它的周邊 你可能有一個i9 目前最強的處理器, 但是沒裝什麼軟體 而且記憶體還不給裝 (錢不給花) 對多數人而言, 電腦是個工具, 目的是要在上面執行軟體 而你的電腦硬體裝備可能很強, 但上面什麼都沒裝, 就算你處理能力再強也沒用吧X
最近我看了一下新聞 天王嫂郭富城的老婆 竟然帶著兩個小孩子坐經濟艙耶? 理由都講很多 但是有錢人 讓老婆帶兩個孩子 坐經濟艙 那真不如離婚算啦4
文蛤的睡前小故事 從前從前,有個男人,名叫小馬。 小馬手頭不寬裕,所以想把祖傳的金條賣掉。 小馬: 我珍貴的金條,只能賣給識貨的,有緣人!2
確實很正常,但這真的是你要的嗎?你得問問你自己,你內心真實的聲音,是不該因為年 齡而妥協的。 以我來說,利用物質條件吸引來的異性並不是我想要的,所以我以前在歐兔寄信都石沉大 海,因為我信裡都在談價值觀和興趣,沒提半點工作和收入。 : 2. 如果你們是我, 會怎麼做?9
以前我曾回覆過類似文章 下面內容複製貼上 你的狀況 若還有結婚的打算 個人見解是~ 放棄 "台女" 這個選項好了11
個性要合得來很重要,但基礎很薄弱。 : 外表之類的其它條件不要太離譜就好了... : 不管是參加聯誼, 或者交友app.... : 有女生願意找我聊, 或者配對成功... : 會試著聊看看, 或許能擦出火花?6
真的很多人跟社會脫節耶 高學歷,大企業工作,高薪, 個性一般比較單純老實 大家都知道了 怎麼還會覺得工程師不受歡迎
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